The Baha'i Life Cycle
Baha'u'llah has reduced all ritual and form to an absolute minimum in His Faith. The few forms that are there are symbols of the inner attitude. The Faith has certain simple rites prescribed by Baha'u'llah, such as the obligatory prayers, the marriage ceremony and the laws for the burial of the dead.
Birth,
Naming:
The Teachings do not provide for any ceremony
whatever on such occasions. The friends may come together on such happy
occasions, provided they do not hold an official public ceremony, and
provided
also they avoid any uniformity and rigidity in all such practices.
Teenage Years:
At age fifteen, youth reach the age of
spiritual
maturity and are expected to assume individual responsibility to
observe
the laws of the Faith, such as to pray and fast.
Administrative Maturity:
At age twenty-one, Baha'is reach the age of
administrative maturity and are eligible both to participate in the
election
of Baha'i administrative institutions, and to be elected to such
bodies.
Marriage:
The Spiritual Assembly is responsible to
authorize
the holding of the wedding ceremony, once it is assured that both
Baha'i
and civil laws have been observed. When the consent of the parents is
obtained,
the only other Baha'i requirement for the ceremony is the recitation by
both parties in the presence of two witnesses of the specifically
revealed
verse: "We will all, verily, abide by the Will of God."
Other prayers, readings and music may be included, but the ceremony is
kept as simple as possible.
Funerals:
The body of the deceased is treated with the
utmost respect, neither being cremated, nor embalmed. It is
regarded
as the temple of the soul. It is to be buried within an hour's
travel
time. There are many beautiful prayers and readings which can be
read and are a comfort for the bereaved, but only one prayer is
required:
the long Prayer for the Dead.
See also the longer: http://www.sji.ca/bahai/funeral.html